Relationships are what makes the world go around. It's why you get dressed up every night, and spend more time than usual on your hair. Whether it be hooking up for a one night stand, or settling in to something serious, we all need that someone to share our lives with, and hopefully our beds too ;) But being in a relationship is hard work. It takes time and effort. It takes dedication and perseverance. And it's very easy to mess up. Everyone wants their relationship to be the best. So I thought of Sharing you guys some signs for a healthy relationship ingay. Here they are:
1- Giving space- If so they don't feel they have to be at each other's sides like heart lung machines. And they don't watch every move of their partner jealously. They are happy in themselves and don't need to get constant minute-by-minute approval, but they give support when it is called for.
2- Quite Times Together- Happy couples do not need to talk to each other constantly. They can be quiet together as well – reading, pottering around the house or whatever, happy in the knowledge that the other person is around, albeit quietly.
3- Equal sharing of tasks/responsibility- Taking terms in House works, taking care of children or households.It's not fair that the lion's share of the household tasks be done alone (except If you work full time).
4- Sense of Humor- No couple on earth can always agree with each other on everything – that is simply impossible, but a couple that can laugh, knows how to diffuse tension.
5- Enjoy socializing- Isolation is always a bad sign.If this happens, danger lights should begin flashing. If couples enjoy each other's company, they will more than likely enjoy seeing friends together as well.
6- Good sex life- The essential thing is that the couple themselves has to be happy with it. Open communication about sex is essential – if a couple can do this, there is little that will be able to destroy their relationship.
7- Joint financial responsibility- It does mean that each spouse takes on a share of responsibility. This implies that neither of them will go out and buy expensive clothes or accessories when the family is in financial trouble. A family is a unit and should function in that way – if it doesn't, chances are there are other serious problems as well.
8- Respect- Respect implies giving space, respecting work commitments, respecting friendships and having basic respect for the other person as a separate human being with hopes, fears, dreams and desires.
9- Having fun together.Enjoying time together is very essential. It Doesn't mean spending a lot of money. Two people can have fun walking in the park, having a cup of coffee, reading to each other, playing with the children. But if a couple can enjoy things together, the relationship has good long-term prospects.
10- Good listening skills- Good listening skills are essential in any relationship, because a good listener will be able to access the underlying feelings to the words someone says. And most important of all, remember what the other person is saying.
11- Good conflict resolution skills- No relationship is without its conflicts, unless one of the two people has given up completely on retaining any form of individuality. But happy couples deal with conflict in a meaningful way. That is, a way in which it gets resolved and doesn't harden into insoluble resentments that stretch over decades.
12- Room to grow- Accept that people and their personalities and interests are not static. People change and their interests can also change over time. Happy couples allow each other the space within which this can happen. Unhappy couples try and pin someone down into a predictable and unchanging pattern.
Hope these Signs of healthy relationship was gr8 for you guys hehehe, Just thought of Sharing a Something worthy :P hehehe
