Packed and ready to go!!!

It's 35 weeks n 4 days ( 8 months n 9 days) now... upto this time I have experienced a lot... a different type of pain and pleasure... Most of the nights has become so sleepless... I have these heart burns... Had go to the toilet alot, feels like the bladder is always full...and often get Hungry and dehydrated ... pain in my abdomin and back is becoming stronger... Apart from all these difficulties, the only thing that relives me from this tension is that, I have gone through the most of it and there is only 4 weeks n 2 days left, yeah... The special moment is going to come very soon...inshallah. And when that day comes each little tension will go away by it self..just because of the sweet little angel that we are about to get...Oh! mummy just can't wait to see you dear :D

Most of the preparation for the new baby is finished... Thanx to my Mom, my Husband and very special relatives... without them I wouldn't have done it yet...I had washed and ironed the baby cloths and packed the essential ones that I have to take to the hospital. All most everything is finished... Now its tym for the baby to come out hehehe... Mihaaru baby bodu kamun vara kick ves kuray hehehe me n Shah spend a lot of quality time together wen the baby starts to kick...bae faharu vara gina iru vandhen tholhela tholhela huray...It's really a great time together...We have been making a record of the number of time the baby kicks, it's very important to note it, cause it will tell you whether the baby is doing fyn or not.

And also sorry guys for not being able to blog and visit your blogs... I know you guyz will understand the situation... will let you know wats going on here okay :)

9 weeks to go

Hey ppl...now Its 7 months (30 weeks) to my baby. Ive got 9 weeks more to deliver the baby... Isn't that cool :D

Baby is growing fast... Baby's Lungs and Digestive tract will be almost fully developed now...the Baby will be about 15.7 inches (40 cm) in lenth and will continue to gain weight until its due. During the Last week my baby will be able to hear and react to some sounds. This week the baby will continue to open and Shut its eyes. And can probably see what's going on in utero, distinguish light from dark and even track a light source. It is said that If you shine a bright light on your stomach, your baby may move his head to follow the light or even reach out to touch the moving glow... Salhi dho...And Finally the baby will now have eyebrows and eyelashes :D ... I'm so happy.

I have Bought the Baby Cot, It's lovely and Now I'm working In the Bed Sheets, blanket and pillows. It's Fun making it by my own hands just for the baby. Hope to post soon with some great news... Chao for now :D

So So Sad

Sad news guyz. I have tried to find the baby sex since the past few days, But I couldn't find any doctor, hospital or clinic that allows to find the sex of the baby. Everyone said it's Strictly prohibited. I told them tat it only applies for Indians, but no one agreed... wat to do dho.

I asked them why its not allowed by the government... and they told me tat most of the Indians don't want to have girls, because wen their girls grow up their parents are not able to meet with the expense for the girls wedding and so and so , And if they know its a girl , some people had gone for an abortion, and sometimes the husband and husbands family has killed the women pregnant. This is really very cruel dho.

I wish to go to Male' and find the sex of the baby, but they wont let me travel now. I belive it's not safe, But I really want to know it.... Now I have to buy baby Items after the baby borns, I really wanted it to be perfect,But now It's so difficult. I have to buy White, green, yellow Items tat suits both sex ... Blue or pink kulaige loabi echeves den nuganevayne... So now I had to wait till the baby is born to know the sex... It's going to be a surprise for us too.


Hey I forgot to tell you guys my husband has updated his blog. pls visit and do leave a comment ingay. This is his blog add ( http://shah22.blogspot.com/). Hope to see ur comments there... bye for now tc :D

Something For You

Hi sweet people, konmefaharakuves vara gina dhuvas kofa dho mi poste koleveny. Actually am so sad about it ingay. I really want to get in touch with you guys. Vara dherave comment nukurevaytheeves. Sorry guys ingay :(

During the last few days I was not feeling so well, I was having a cold, due to that I coughed a lot and it made me vomit everytime I take in food, Doctor said my Hemoglobin level was too low, I was truly so depressed to know tat it will affect the baby too. After taking the medicine for five days my coughing has turned a little bit okay. Ekam adhives ekko rangalhe nuvay..... hama rangalhuvumuge magumatheega hehehe.


Anyways, there is a happy news too, the Picture above is the 4D scan of my baby. Loabi dho nidhaalaafa oiylay. It's taken when the baby was 4 months 21 days old. Mihaaru kuriavure boduvaane , it's going to be 6 months on 9th October. Vara kick kuray mihaaru. So nice to feel the little cutie hehehe. Well tats it for today.... hehehe.... And yes, this pic is for everyone who really cared and always asked about the baby..... thank u guys for being so nice ;) .... Hope you all liked it :D tc guys.

Wanna Have A Healthy Relationship !!!

Relationships are what makes the world go around. It's why you get dressed up every night, and spend more time than usual on your hair. Whether it be hooking up for a one night stand, or settling in to something serious, we all need that someone to share our lives with, and hopefully our beds too ;) But being in a relationship is hard work. It takes time and effort. It takes dedication and perseverance. And it's very easy to mess up. Everyone wants their relationship to be the best. So I thought of Sharing you guys some signs for a healthy relationship ingay. Here they are:

1- Giving space- If so they don't feel they have to be at each other's sides like heart lung machines. And they don't watch every move of their partner jealously. They are happy in themselves and don't need to get constant minute-by-minute approval, but they give support when it is called for.

2- Quite Times Together- Happy couples do not need to talk to each other constantly. They can be quiet together as well – reading, pottering around the house or whatever, happy in the knowledge that the other person is around, albeit quietly.

3- Equal sharing of tasks/responsibility- Taking terms in House works, taking care of children or households.It's not fair that the lion's share of the household tasks be done alone (except If you work full time).

4- Sense of Humor- No couple on earth can always agree with each other on everything – that is simply impossible, but a couple that can laugh, knows how to diffuse tension.

5- Enjoy socializing- Isolation is always a bad sign.If this happens, danger lights should begin flashing. If couples enjoy each other's company, they will more than likely enjoy seeing friends together as well.

6- Good sex life- The essential thing is that the couple themselves has to be happy with it. Open communication about sex is essential – if a couple can do this, there is little that will be able to destroy their relationship.

7- Joint financial responsibility- It does mean that each spouse takes on a share of responsibility. This implies that neither of them will go out and buy expensive clothes or accessories when the family is in financial trouble. A family is a unit and should function in that way – if it doesn't, chances are there are other serious problems as well.

8- Respect- Respect implies giving space, respecting work commitments, respecting friendships and having basic respect for the other person as a separate human being with hopes, fears, dreams and desires.

9- Having fun together.Enjoying time together is very essential. It Doesn't mean spending a lot of money. Two people can have fun walking in the park, having a cup of coffee, reading to each other, playing with the children. But if a couple can enjoy things together, the relationship has good long-term prospects.

10- Good listening skills- Good listening skills are essential in any relationship, because a good listener will be able to access the underlying feelings to the words someone says. And most important of all, remember what the other person is saying.


11- Good conflict resolution skills- No relationship is without its conflicts, unless one of the two people has given up completely on retaining any form of individuality. But happy couples deal with conflict in a meaningful way. That is, a way in which it gets resolved and doesn't harden into insoluble resentments that stretch over decades.

12- Room to grow- Accept that people and their personalities and interests are not static. People change and their interests can also change over time. Happy couples allow each other the space within which this can happen. Unhappy couples try and pin someone down into a predictable and unchanging pattern.

Hope these Signs of healthy relationship was gr8 for you guys hehehe, Just thought of Sharing a Something worthy :P hehehe

Hey Ppl Long Time Dho

Hi guys...... It's Been a long time dho. Aslu very busy inagay ehenve posteves nukoleveny aneka commenteves nukoleveny :( sry ingay.

Baby annanvaa ira Kotari decorate kolanee Aneka Miulheny gaygaves salhi photo negaygotha beynunvaa baye accessories gannan, ayee baby ge sweet sweet moments tha gr8ko naganvegen. Mihaaru Shopping a gos baivaru echehives ganefin ekam adhi clothes nugannan vaki sex e neygaytheeve, Baby Cot libayne dis month 15th ga. So then Im gonna make Pillow covers and bed sheets. Im having a gr8 tym.... Hope u guyz were here with me :).Pls don't think I've forgotton about u guys or stopped bloggin inagy. aslu vara hadhaanve ekam keekuraany dho vaguthe nuvaathyve ingay. Hope u guyz understand ;)

So Now Im working on how to remove an image from it's background and place it in a new backdrop using photo shop. I have used the pen tool to select the image. So here is my first one. Ehaa reeche nuvaane kanves ingay hehehe... take a luk...

The Pic before I Edited


After I used my backdrop....oops i forgot to blur the background a little bit.... not so nice dho...hama practice kuranee :D



Hey if anyone knows more about this pls give me some ideas :D
So see u guyz around, till then do tc ;)

Funny things people said

Signs:

* "Open seven days a week. Closed Sundays." -- On the bottom of a pizza parlor's take-out menu.

* "Parking for drive-through customers only." -- A sign at a McDonald's in California.

* "We are Handicapped - Friendly. For example, if you are blind, we will read the menu

for you." -- A notice in a restaurant.

* "Eat Here - Get Gas" -- A sign at a gas station.

* "Hot drinks to take out or sit in." -- A sign on a cafe.

* "You can't beat our meat!" -- A sign on a restaurant, now closed.

* "Our Infamous Steaks" -- A sign at a restaurant in Raleigh, NC.<

* "Now Hiring / Sausage Biscuits / $1" -- A sign at a McDonald's.

* "NOW HIRING / TWO FRENCH DIPS / FOR TWO DOLLARS." -- A sign at an Arby's in North Bend, Washington.

* "Please consume all food on premises." -- A sign at a Souplantation restaurant.

Quotes:

* "Is there chicken in your vegetarian gumbo?" -- Asked of a waitress.

* "Just the chicken." -- The response a waitress gave when asked if there were any dairy
products in a soup.

* "Would you like cream and sugar with that?" -- Asked by a waitress when a customer
specified orange juice instead of coffee as part of a breakfast meal.

* "Do you want cheese on that?" -- Asked when a customer ordered a plain cheeseburger.

* "You want fries with that?" -- Asked when a customer ordered an apple turnover.

* "Do you want onions on that?" -- A waitress, in response to a couple ordering a milk
shake and a large cola.

* "Is there any meat in the veggie rolls?"

* "Do you get rice with your fried rice?"

* "I'm sorry, we only have six inch and foot long subs." -- A waitress, when asked for a
12 inch sub.

* "Would you like to care for a cup of coffee?" -- A waitress.

* "Which of these coffees did you want with cream and sugar?" -- Asked of a customer who
had ordered two coffees, one with cream and sugar and one without.

* "Do you want that in a bag?" -- Asked of a customer who ordered coffee to go.

* "Is this for here or to go?" -- Asked of a Dairy Queen customer at a drive-through
window.

* "What's the difference between the 1/4 pounder and the 1/3 pounder?"

* "What's the difference?" -- Asked of a waitress when asked if the customer would like
breadsticks with or without cheese.

* "Sir, we only have one thousand island dressing." -- A waitress, when asked for two
thousand island dressings.

* "How many pieces are in the eight piece chicken deal?"

* "How much is the $1.99 popcorn chicken?"

* "Is the honey mustard sauce sweet?"

* "Is the spicy chicken just spicy or is it hot and spicy?"

* "Would you like the sale price?" -- A fast food worker, asking how a customer would
like to pay for his order of two special sandwiches.

* "That's not an animal. It's a mammal." -- Cafeteria worker serving shrimp at a public
high school.

* "Does your ice cream contain dairy products?" -- A customer at the drive-through of a
fast food restaurant.

* "Excuse me. These ham and cheese rolls -- do they have ham in them?" -- A customer at
a bakery cafe.

* "Don't you guys have them 99 cent Whoppers?" -- Asked of a Taco Bell cashier.

* "This is to go." -- Commonly said by customers at drive-through windows.

* "I'd like a large Pepsi pizza." -- A customer ordering pizza over the phone. After
saying this, the customer was heard saying to someone else with him, "Wait, Chuck, is
that right?"

I'm So Excited

It’s 17 weeks of wondering if everything is going alright. I can’t see the little baby in here except for the precious moment of an ultrasound. I have recently done one when it was 2 months. I Just couldn't believe that I'm carrying a baby inside me, it was so sweet,I don't know how much happy I was. Every time I wonder if everything is alright inside. I just want to make sure it's healthy and happy. Well I'll be able to see the baby next month when I'm 5 months pregnant. can't wait to see the baby again.

I have been reading a lot of books and browsed the net too. But it leads to finding out there are so many things that can go wrong. What it boils down to is that it’s all an act of faith and hope. I’ve found a great deal about the irritations and discomfort that comes from this little being taking over my body, but the reality of it, the reason that I submit to doing it at all is because of that faith and hope and the chance to participate in the creation of an entirely new little person. That’s nothing short of a miracle. That is one of the highest privileges granted to a woman.

I'm now Downloading Baby lullabies,Rhymes and songs the whole day just to make me feel better and to shorten the day. And I'm planning to go out of town to buy baby dresses, bed and other Accessories too. I'm feeling so excited and happy, oh! I just don't know how to explain how I am feeling now. Most of the Time while resting, there is only one thing on my mind,Wot type of baby will it be? Will the baby have mine or his eyes, nose, ears lips,fingers, body etc. hehehe. I some times imagine how we both will look when we are mixed,well that could be the way the baby may look like dho. Oh! I just can't wait to see our baby. Can't wait to cuddle and play with it. I just feel like shouting to the whole world saying that I'm pregnant. hehehe :D

A Gift

Sorry I have been not well these days. Thats why I couldn't post.
As a matter of fact im expecting something, A gift of God, the most wonderful gift for two married couples... by now you must be guessing what is she talking about dho hehehe... but think hard... you will know.
Let me see who gets it correct hehehe..... its much more fun when u guess it ennu dho ;)

Ive Been Tagged !!!

Well I have been tagged too. By Sujau and MT.


1) Three Things I can't do:
- Tell secrets of others.
- Lie to my parents.
- Betray.


2) Three things I can do:
- Smile.
- Cry.
- Dream.


3) Three things that scare me:
- God.
- Death.
- Alone at home.


4) Three things I love:
- My Darling.
- My Family.
- My Religion.


5) Three things I hate:
- lairs.
- Nosy guys.
- Gossips.


Well now, I will tag these three lovely people.
- Pixsie.
- Kaiza shozey.
- Lil girl.

The Sweet Girl part 3 ( A horror story)

(Sorry for the Delay.... Enjoy :) )

Malsha Confined her self assuming that she had a nightmare, That she had fell asleep waiting for some one to come. But just to be sure, she headed over to the library to see if anyone had ever been murdered in this Agency. She was really shook up after that, but she hoped she was wrong, that it was a really bad nightmare.

After the kindly old librarian showed her where the newspaper relics were, she thanked her and started to work.

Malsha was just about to give up, when the article caught her eye:

"Unsolved murder still baffles FBI and faculty at Police"

"According to officials, a four-year-old Shania Mohamed was found dead in her mothers section, Who was a former Manager in IT section. Shania’s mother, Faxla left her daughter in the section and attended a meeting in the main hall. Where Shania was Alone Playing Computer Game.

Then there was a disturbance across Faxla’s Section which alerted officials. As the Agency was a big place no one reached the room, Until everything was over. Apparently, someone (whose name will not be mentioned in this article) was walking to her room, when the cries of a young girl were heard coming from Faxla’s room.

When school officials entered the room, they found Shania lying upon the floor, her throat slit opened. Strangely enough, no fingerprints, or any sample of DNA were found"

Malsha scrolled down, and saw a picture of a face so familiar, it sent chills down her spine. It was the little girl. There was that same look in her mysterious eyes, that look that made her seem so sad. "If only you would speak to me, and tell me who did this to you," she whispered under her breath, trying hard not to cry.

"Hey, Malsha!" someone said right behind her. She turned around and smiled. "Hey Maail, hows it going?"

"Fine," he said smoothly. "Watchya reading?" She rolled her eyes, the tears no longer there. "Nothing" she replied coolly. "I was getting ready to go and see whether you guys are here yet."

"Hey, how about I walk you to your section," he said mildly.

She agreed, so they started out.

As they entered to her Section, the little girl appeared out of nowhere. Malsha looked on in surprise as Maail looked down and sneered "Back from the afterlife, little girl?"

The little girl looked up with somewhat of a smile on her face.

"It's almost time," the little girl told Malsha in a small, girl-like voice.

Maail tried to lash out at the little girl, but he might as well of been hitting at the wind. His hand went through her like air.

She looked at Malsha again and smiled. "It’s almost time," she said again.

Maail looked at Malsha with a look of total hatred. With what seemed like a totally different person, he grabbed her by the wrist and started yanking her behind the building.

"Maail, what are you doing?!?!" she cried hysterically.

"What I've been planning on doing since I saw you the first time," he said calmly, too calmly.

With that in mind, he ripped at her clothes, took out his hunting knife, and slit her throat.

"New female Employee found dead behind History Section at Sate News Agency"

"Twenty-year-old Malsha Faaiz was found dead behind the History Section at 21:30 pm yesterday night. No fingerprints or any articles of DNA were found. She was clutching a hunting knife. Police speculate suicide."

The end

The Sweet Girl part 2 ( A horror story)

There was the most angelic little girl that you would ever hope to see standing there. She had a little scarf around her neck. She looked to be around 4 or 5 years old. The little girl was wearing a cute blue and white dress on, with ruby flats. A beautiful little angel, she thought to herself happily. She almost looked like one.

She knelt down in front of the girl and smiled. "Now where did you come from?" she asked smiling.

The little girl just stood there, as if seeing Malsha, but not really seeing.

The door from the hallway opened. It was Aika, from the next Section. "Hi Malsha'," she said worriedly. "Me and Haifa heard you scream, and I came over to see if you were alright."

"I'm fine," she replied smiling. "It was just a mouse that scared the crap out of me, but other than that, I'm ok."

"Thats good," Aika replied. "Well, I guess I'll see you tonight ."

"OK, hey listen, have you ever seen this little girl right here before? I was thinking who this girl is, so I figured she was daughter of someone, and got left here."

Aika looked at her confused. "Malsha, what little girl?"

"This one right . . . here." Malsha looked a little confused. The little girl had disappeared.

"I think you need some rest," Aika said shaking her head. "See you tonight."

"Yeah, see ya," Malsh said shakily. The little girl had been there just a second ago!

Two and a half hours later, after all her work was completed, she looked at the time and it was time to go home. It was a tough day.

After getting showered, putting her favorite Clothes on, and brushing her teeth, she felt fresh and clean for going to work. It was her first day, but was very tough. She prepared to go to the Office to prepare a meeting for tomorrow.

As she went into the office it looked so empty. No one was there to be seen. She looked at the time and saw she was a bit early, so she went into her section and sat down on her chair. Closed her eyes and thought of home. Then she felt someone’s eyes on her.

Malsha opened her eyes, and there standing at the other end of the table was the little girl. "You sure do like to pop up at the darndest hours," she muttered under her breath.

She got up from her chair and walked towards the little girl. "Want to start by telling me your name?" she asked. The little girl just stared at Malsha', almost seeming to be studying her.

Malsha bent over to touch the little girl's face. Her cheek was icy to the touch. And her eyes, there was something about her deep, back eyes. They looked so sad.

The little girl looked over Malsha, and let out a silent scream. A red line ran across her neck, and blood started to trickle out.

And, as Malsha looked on in terror, the little girl faded into thin air, and vanished.

(To be continued)

The Sweet Girl part 1 ( A horror story)

It was the first day of Malsha's new job as an Archivist of the Sate News agency. She breathed in a lung full of fresh air as she stepped into her new life. Ah, the wonderful feeling of being an archivist, newness. This was her first approach to the working world, and she wanted to make it her best.

As she entered the section that she will be working, something caught her eye. It was Maail, the guy in Admin Section. He was a Secretary, and secretly, she thought he looked just so adorable in that Blue Shirt and matching dark blue tie.

He caught her eye as she walked in
and smiled. Then with a sweet smile he called her to come over. She then smiled shyly again, pushed her hair back, and carefully walked up to him, careful not to make a false step with her new Shoes.

As She came up to him, He thought to ask her how she feels about the agency, which house she was from, her interest of the job, etc, since Maail had never seen a beautiful girl like her in this Agency. He’d be careful not to tell her everything there was to know about him.

Back at the Section, at the end of a busy day, Malsha sat at her desk with her Reference Manual. She was all alone in the section because the other two guys were in leave. She tried to concentrate, but a pair of Hazel eyes kept popping into her head. "I need to talk to him," she said to herself "I really want to know much about him." Thinking to herself, she couldn't stop thinking how cute he was! And he was so sweet! Maail had even joined her for breakfast too.

Malsha was so wrapped up with her thoughts, that she barely noticed the movement coming from the door. But she noticed it enough to swish her head over in time to see the outline of a little girl going out of her room into her Managers Room.

She shook her head in annoyance. Someone's little girl is wandering around the section, must have been lost or hiding. Malsha got up slowly and walked carefully over to the Managers Room, so not to scare the little girl obviously hiding from somebody. But wait there wasn’t any sign of the girl, so she quietly walked towards the Toilet.

Malsha opened the toilet door slowly and peeked her head in. There was nobody in there. Confusion appeared on her face. Didn't she see a little girl walk in here?

A smile popped on her face. She's probably hiding in the Toilet, she thought to herself.

Slowly and deliberately, she walked over to the Toilet, and not so slowly, opened the door. Still nobody was in here. But that didn't stop her. She could be hiding behind the bathroom counter. With that in mind, she walked over to the Counter.

Malsha screamed out in terror! "Kill it, kill it, KILL IT!" The mouse jumped out at her, It ran out of the bathroom, and into her section. Quick as a wink, she grabbed the broom in the toilet and started running to kill the little squirt. She ran into the room and stopped short. There was something that She couldn’t believe her eyes.....

(To be continued)

Simple Rules To Be Happy

Remember the five simple rules to be happy:

1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.

No one can go back and make a brand new start. Anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending. God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain, but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way.

Disappointments are like road humps, they slow you down a bit but you enjoy the smooth road afterwards. Don't stay on the humps too long. Move on! When you feel down because you didn't get what you want, just sit tight and be happy, because God is thinking of something
better to give you.

When something happens to you, good or bad, consider what it means. There's a purpose to life's events, to teach you how to laugh more or not to cry too hard.

You can't make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the person to realize your worth.

The measure of love is when you love without measure. In life there are very rare chances that you'll meet the person you love and loves you in return. So once you have it don't ever let go, the
chance might never come your way again.

It's better to lose your pride to the one you love, than to lose the one you love because of pride.

We spend too much time looking for the right person to love or finding fault with those we already love, when instead we should be perfecting the love we give.

When you truly care for someone, you don't look for faults, you don't look for answers, you don't look for mistakes. Instead, you fight the mistakes, you accept the faults, and you overlook the excuses.

Never abandon an old friend. You will never find one who can take his place. Friendship is like oak wood, it gets better as it grows older.

You Are Everything !!!

This little one is dedicated to my beloved husband, I just wanted to say I Still feel the same about him and he still is everything for me :)

Darling!
You are everything I desire
You are my Life my love
You are my heart my eyes
you are my soul and myself
You are the light that guides me through
you are the one that made me feel alive
you are all I need to survive
You are always there for me in better and worse
You kissed me whenever I wanted it the most
you are all I need to be me
Cause You are my love that will always be
you are everything...
And You mean everything to me
I love you darling

Stay Away from 5 Star Hotels...

Question: What would you like to have ..Fruit juice, Soda, Tea, Chocolate, Milo, or Coffee?

Answer: "tea please"

Question: " Ceylon tea, Herbal tea, Bush tea, Honey bush tea, Ice tea or green tea ?"

Answer : "Ceylon tea "

Question: "How would you like it ? black or white ?"

Answer: "white"

Question: "Milk, Whitener, or Condensed milk ?"

Answer: "With milk"

Question: "Goat milk, Camel milk or cow milk"

Answer: With cow milk please.

Question: "Milk from Freeze land cow or Afrikaner cow?"

Answer: "Um, I'll take it black"

Question: " Would you like it with sweetener, sugar or honey?"

Answer: "With sugar"

Question: "Beet sugar or cane sugar ?"

Answer: "Cane sugar "

Question:" White , brown or yellow sugar ?"

Answer: "Forget about tea just give me a glass of water instead."

Question: "Mineral water or still water ? "

Answer: "Mineral water"

Question: "Flavored or non-flavored ?"

Answer: "I'll rather die of thirst

No One's So Perfect

Does Men Always want their wives to be perfect, Yes they do. But no Wife could be as perfect as they want. I was really stunned to watch this film "The Stepford Wives" were the men had done something to make their wives so perfect. Here The women all act as though they've been brain-washed and the men just seem to sit around the men's club all day.They inserted micro chips to their wives brain,that includes everything nice.The women of Stepford spend all day knitting, gardening, exercising in beautiful dresses, and are the most splendid of all women on Earth.They always kept a smile on their face.These wives pleasure their husbands in any way the husband desires, As they have the remote control to make their wives as sexy as they want.The women of Stepford was so perfect.

In my view Some Man may do these things to their wives if there was a way possible isn't it. But truly speaking Although these woman say "I love you", Does They mean it? No, They just say things and do things cause they were programed to. Every one and every wife will be perfect in their own ways. we need to believe it dho.

Kinda Busy

hey there buddies, sorry for not being able to post lately. It's just Im really busy these days, and specialy yesterday (22 June) was my birthday. Hehehe.Thats why ingay. But I will try to post something interesting as soon as possible. Till hen Chao ;)

Spontaneous Human Combustion

Spontaneous combustion occurs when an object in the case of spontaneous human combustion, a person bursts into flame from a chemical reaction within, apparently without being ignited by an external heat source.

The first known account of spontaneous human combustion came from the Danish anatomist Thomas Bartholin in 1663, who described how a woman in Paris "went up in ashes and smoke" while she was sleeping. The straw mattress on which she slept was unmarred by the fire. In 1673.

The hundreds of spontaneous human combustion accounts since that time have followed a similar pattern: The victim is almost completely consumed, usually inside his or her home. Coroners at the scene have sometimes noted a sweet, smoky smell in the room where the incident occurred.

What makes the charred bodies in the photos of spontaneous human combustion so peculiar is that the extremities often remain intact. Although the torso and head are charred beyond recognition, the hands, feet, and/or part of the legs may be unburned. Also, the room around the person shows little or no signs of a fire, aside from a greasy residue that is sometimes left on furniture and walls. In rare cases, the internal organs of a victim remain untouched while the outside of the body is charred.

Not all spontaneous human combustion victims simply burst into flames. Some develop strange burns on their body which have no obvious source, or emanate smoke from their body when no fire is present. And not every person who has caught fire has died a small percentage of people have actually survived what has been called their spontaneous combustion.

It's Really Shocking to know these Kinds Of reactions also takes place inside our Body.Now a days I haven't heard any news about Human Combustion.Thanks God, For protecting Us from these kinds of Symptoms.

Girl On Move

I have been moving from house to house so many times. I first stayed in My Mom's house in Male. Lets see how much I have moved. :O

1- when I was 3 years I moved to My Dad's House in Male'.
2- When I was promoted to grade 10 I moved to mom's house again.
3- Due to the Construction of my mom's home in 2005 I Shifted to a small neighboring House.
4- Then I Shifted to Male Hiya Flat That year.
5- Again After the Construction I Shifted to mom's House in March 2006.
6- At September 2006 I shifted to a House No 1 In India.
7- At November 2006 I shifted to House No 2
8- On 15th February 2006 I shifted to House No 3
9- And today 13th June 2007 I'm Again Shifting to a new house. let say House No 4.

I Probably will Stay in this House till May 2008. Then I'm Going to move to a new City and Again the Process will Go On And Again. Hehehe.

So Got to go Pack my Stuffs. It's Gonna be a Tough day today. I'll be able to check my blog After five days, cause it will take 5 days to connect the internet connection. so Chao guys. miss ya soo much. :)

Some Item's before Packing.

Some packed Item's.

Keep Smiling....

If at times you feel you want to cry

And life seems such a trial
Above the clouds there's a bright blue sky
So make your tears a smile


As you travel on lifes way
With its many ups and downs
Remember it's quite true to say
One smile is worth a dozen frowns


Among the worlds Expensive things
A smile is very cheap
And when you give a smile away,
You get one back to keep


Happiness comes at times to all
But sadness comes unbidden
And sometimes a few tears must fall
Among the laughter hidden


So when friends have sadness on their face
And troubles round them piled
The world will seem a better place
And all because you smiled.

A Mail I Got Today....

* Some Books Against our Religion.

Well today I got a mail from some Robert Wood And the subject was "vaahaka". so I thought it would be an interesting piece and I selected it. And then I was directed into a website. In it there was a link as "Isaagefaaanu vaahaka"so I clicked it. And came up to a mp3 player, above it was written as follows:

"Jesus Christ brings everlasting life to you.
Abraham, Moses and the prophets tell about this."

And do you know this story was spoken in Dhivehi..... At this point I Knew I better not hear this.This maybe from the people who r trying to change our religion...they are trying very hard to do this. Even selling books. Why don't these people do what they want to their belivers? Why do they want to interfere with ours ? Shame on them for these kind of activities. Allah will never forgive them. They meant to be in jahanam forever.

Dear friends please dont listen to any of this fake stories, They may affect the way you think. u may even get this mail. But please dont read it or listen cause a single story may change the way we think about our religion. We must be confident with a great will, that non of these fake stories may do a single thing on us.

Moving Thoughts

Don't go for looks; they may deceive you. Don't go
for wealth; even that fades away. Go for
someone who makes you smile because it takes only
a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the
that makes your heart smile.

Always put yourself in other's shoes. If you feel
that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other
person, too.

When you were born, you were crying and
everyone around you was smiling. Live your life
so that when you die, you're the one who is
smiling and every one around you is crying.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best
of everything; they just make the most of everything
that comes along their way.

When the door of happiness closes, another opens,
but often times we look so long at the closed door
that we don't see the one which has been opened for us

It's true that we don't know what we've got until we
lose it, but it's also true that don't know what we have
been missing until it arrives.

Beware Of Mirrors!!!

Beware of Mirrors in Hotels! ...Because you never know! Beware of Mirrors in the changing rooms of shops! ...Because you never know!

How do we know if a mirror is 2 way or not (Not a Joke!) Not to scare you, but to make you aware. A policewoman who travels all over the US and gives seminars and techniques for
businesswomen passed this on.

HOW TO DETECT A 2-WAY MIRROR :

When we visit toilets, bathrooms, hotel rooms, changing rooms, etc. How many of you know for sure that the seemingly ordinary mirror hanging on the wall is a real mirror, or actually a 2-way mirror( i.e., they can see you, but you can't see them).

There have been many cases of people installing 2-way mirrors in female changing rooms. It is very difficult to positivelybidentify the surface by just looking at it. So, how do we determine with any amount of certainty what type of mirror we are looking at? Just conduct this simple test:

* Place the tip of your fingernail against the reflective surface and if there is a GAP between your fingernail and the image of the nail, then it is a GENUINE mirror. However, if your fingernail DIRECTLY TOUCHES the image of your nail, then BEWARE, FOR IT IS A 2-WAY MIRROR!

So remember , every time you see a mirror, do the "fingernail test." It doesn't cost you anything. It is simple to do, and it might save you from getting "visually raped" ! This is a really good thing to do. The reason there is a gap on a real mirror, is because the silver is on the back of the mirror UNDER the glass. As a two-way mirror, the silver is on the surface. Keep it in mind!
Ladies: Share this with your girl friends.
Men: Share this with your wives, daughters and/or girlfriend or friends.

PASS THIS ON FOR SAFETY

HOW TO AVOID STRANGER RAPE

PLs take care of yourselves. This is something that you Must think about.

AT HOME:

* Use deadbolts; window locks; peep holes; timers for lights, radio, TV, and outside security lights.
* Never open door to strangers; require ID of service or repair people.
* Plan several escape routes from your home.
* If you are a single woman - use only initials at door and in phone book. Pretend there is a man at home if someone calls.
* If you come home and something looks wrong or different - do not enter; go to a safe place and call police.


ON THE STREET:

* Go with others.
* Vary routines; go different ways at different times.
* Know where the safe places are; businesses that are open late, homes where people are up late, etc.
* If a situation feels wrong, get away fast.
* Stay away from bushes and parked cars; walk in the center of the sidewalk or road.

ON THE JOB:

* Do not work late alone; keep company with others.
* Go to the parking lot with others or ask security to accompany you.
* Vary route (and time if possible) to and from work.
* Maintain assertiveness with co-workers.

IF YOU HAVE BEEN RAPED

DO

* Tell someone you trust.
* Call the police immediately.
* Go to the hospital or a doctor.
* Call for support of a Rape Crisis worker:

DO NOT

* Wash, shower, douche, urinate or defecate (if possible).
* Change your clothes or anything about the scene where the crime took place.
* Eat, drink, or smoke.
You could destroy evidence which may be needed later.

WOMEN DO NOT ASK FOR RAPE;
NO ONE DOES

RAPE IS NOT A SEXUAL ACT,
IT IS AN ACT OF VIOLENCE

RAPE IS UNLAWFUL SEXUAL INTERCOURSE

REPORT IT !

True Power of Photoshop

By watching this movie you can see the true power of photoshop. Just watch this movie, and post your thoughts about this. It seems that everything that we see on TV and magazines is FAKE.

Nightmare

Last week I had a very bad nightmare. I was living in a cottage at the sea shore. And do you know what? I was defeating my family against a giant octopus and it was with my own sword. Okay okay it's weird, me having a sword. Anyway I tried to kill it, but it escaped. Some how I knew it will come back for revenge. Later I found out that it was not actually a real octopus, but a human infant. oooh :o how did it happen? I wanted to find out.

Then suddenly I was in a hospital to investigate this case. hehehe I’m a detective funny dho. And to my surprise things has started to become worse then ever. Some how I knew that “Human evolution has began to change". And people were changing to animals, fearful animals. I felt a stab of pain as I walked down the hall way, seeing innocent people in each room deforming into animals. They cried for help, for the fear and the pain they were going through. Blood was oozing from their bodies and I could see their flesh and their nerves too, as their body began to change. Where were the doctors and nurses? how could anyone come to help others cause everyone is deforming. Some changed into slimy animals, hairy animals and scary too.

For my surprise I haven't changed a bit. But then it became much worse when I realized a sudden tingling in my stomach. My muscles stiffened, my skin became hard and reddish. My hand began to change into a blade like structure. My legs shrinked and eight more small legs started to develop. And two long Antennae grew from my head. It was truly very painful, And it was like someone tearing my body parts away and stitching new parts into me. I began to see things differently and unclearly. I tried to scream but my voice was trapped inside me. My body was changing into a..... I don’t want to tell u ppl....but....okay okay... I began to change into a human size lobster. One of my favorite sea food yummy. But what to do dho. I once again tried to cry out loud. I quickly tried to open my eyes wider to make things clear.....And with a sudden Shock I waked up to the real world with a deep breath. Oh! omg It was just a nightmare. Yeah! a nightmare.

Later I prayed God for sometimes and went back to sleep again. And I slept well.

This Is Also Love

Check this out do you believe this!!!
This is indeed the Marriage of the Century!

When it comes to LOVE, I guess nothing matters, not size, not colors, not height,…. just love


Why the guy wanna stay naked for the photo? More muscular?



“For two people in a marriage to live together day after day is unquestionably the one miracle the Vatican has overlooked.”
Wisdom Quotes from Bill Cosby

Woman Considered As Spenders

Is it right to say that woman are spenders? Doesn't men also waste money.I once heard that "Never give a cradit card to a woman".Do you really agree with this? Actually I quiet don"t think so.Dont think that I'm disagreeing cause I'm a woman.The truth is both men and woman waste money for their needs. This happens to most of us. I know I know after reading this post Male ones won't Agree with this. Cause non of the men I asked this Question agreed.

Some Maldivian Woman spend money for cloths, shoes, Cosmetic Items, Saloon jobs, Hand Bags,Jewellery and blah blah... This Happens to everyone who wants to look beautiful.Okey... They also waste money.:P

While some Maldivian Men mostly waste their money on Expensive perfumes, cloths, Going for Coffee, Latest Motorcycles, latest cellphones, Cars add some of these guys go to cycle rides with different girls resulting a waste of petrol. The list goes on, so fullstop. What do you say about this huh? Now see if you can scoff at that! anha! Gotcha!!! :P

In my Opinion the rate of both men and women wasting money is the same amount. Don't ya agree? As a result no man can ever say that women waste more.:P
Please don't get me wrong dear. It's my views. Noontha!! ;)

Eeeeeeek Unwanted Hair!!!

Talking about unwanted hairs both sex have unwanted hairs in their body. Everybody wishes to be fresh and energetic. Hair Removed according to the level of hairs in the body.Hair is mainly removed from the hands, legs, arms, underarms, bikini area, face, and eyebrows.

Waxing, sugaring, and electrolysis are the most preferred methods for permanent body hair removal.I know its Painful.Laser treatments are also used for permanent body hair removal.But too expensive heheh. You can do Waxing by appling wax over the hairs and then a cotton strip is rubbed on the wax in the direction of the hair growth. Waxing removes the hairs from the roots and hence the regrowth of hairs in the removed area takes between 6 to 8 weeks. After hair removal through waxing even if the hair grows it is thinner and is sparser in the area.Upon further hair removal the hair may go off permanently. Hair growth inhibitor is used after body hair removal through waxing is usually done to reduce the growth of hairs in that area.The there is Sugaring,It is also a method that is used for hair removal permanently. The difference is the sugar paste instead of wax for removal. Whether a you are using waxing or sugaring it is advised to use a hair growth inhibitor after the removal of hairs to prevent hair growth or to slow down the growth of hairs.

Electrolysis and Laser treatments remove the hairs permanently from the skin. In these methods the hair follicle is destroyed so that the hair does not grow again. Electrolysis method uses needles to supply electric current to the hair follicles. As a result this electric current creates some chemical changes or generates heat to destroy the hair follicles. In Laser treatment the laser beams are directed towards the hair follicles to destroy it. Laser treatments are costly when compared to other methods of hair removal.

Have you ever tried any of this Hair removing tricks. Hehehe. You better get away from those unwanted hairs.... dho. :) :) :) :) hahahahaa

Wish I Had Wings......

I don't know how to describe this story. It really has touched my heart . I couldn't believe that at the end of the story I could feel my tears rolling down my cheeks. It's a short story of what a family undergoes, when their only daughter takes to bed..... So i thought of bloggin it to you guys to read. And here it is.

Nancy walked down the desolate Lobby and settled behind the Reception counter. A proletarian in the profession, the loneliness of the hospital's lobby during night hours was still new to her. Preoccupied in deciding what to order for dinner, she was swinging in her chair, when the red emergency light started flashing on the board. It read Room 9. She immediately pushed the green button on intercom and announced - "Paging Dr. Singh for an emergency. Please report immediately to room 9." She repeated the message twice and then just set the receiver back and rushed down the south-east aisle. On her way, she was joined by Dr. Singh, and few other nurses. They entered Room 9, which was dark, except for the heart monitors which glowed insanely. The silence of the room was torn by the shrill noise of the life saving gadgetry that occupied most part of the room. Dr. Singh switched on the lights, to reveal a sad state in front of their eyes. The pole, to which the glucose bottle dangled once, was now parallel to ground, creating a puddle of colored fluid. The originally white bed sheet was now partly red and was indecisive whether it should be on floor or on the bed. With wires running between the heart monitors and oxygen cylinders, the matrix rested on a small figure cocooned in the bed-sheet. Among all this, lying on the ground was Anjali with foam dripping down her lips and her body quivering like a fish outside the water.
Anjali turned 10 on the day she was brought to the Holy Spirit hospital a month back, and she never actually left Room 9 after that. Her 10th birthday did not offer her as many gifts as many copious tests she underwent. Blood tests, urine tests, stool tests, X-Rays, just to be followed by MRI. The piles of reports that these tests generated were all hinting what Dr. Singh was dreading to even speculate. They all hinted that Anjali was suffering from "Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease" (CJD). CJD was a rare fatal disease of the central nervous system and the text book definition of the CJD suggested --

***CJD is a dementing disease of the brain caused by an unconventional, transmissible agent (prion).
Symptoms of CJD include forgetfulness, nervousness, jerky trembling hand movements, unsteady gait, muscle spasms, chronic dementia, balance disorder, and loss of facial expression.***

Considered as the pioneer of Neurology in India Dr. Singh was an uncrowned king of medicine kingdom. As his watery eyes stared at Anjali's reports, his cell phone vibrated.
"Singh Speaking."
"Hi Karan, Bose here. I just got your voice message, and you sounded tense. Is everything ok?"
"Sir, Sorry to bother you at this late hour but I have this very unusual case and I wanted a second opinion. Or to be precise, your opinion."
Dr. Bose was Dr. Karan Singh's mentor-cum-God-Father. Dr. Singh did not believe in God, but he believed in his GOD-FATHER. He believed that possibly he can be wrong in his analysis, but Dr. Bose would never. This time, Dr. Singh wished he was wrong. The conversation between them went on for close to an hour and just concluded with Dr. Bose saying --
"Karan, I know it's hard to believe, and also the chance of such a case is 1 in million, but we have to accept the fact that, the 1 unfortunate person is right in front of us. She is a clear case of CJD and there is no cure for this. Rest I leave it to you how you break this news to her folks." As he pressed the red button on his cell phone, Dr. Singh just sank in his chair and wondered how he was going to face Anjali's parents.
Next morning, Dr. Singh entered the room, and saw Mr. and Mrs. Suri sitting on the bed next to Anjali. She was awake, and attempting to arm wrestles her macho Dad.
"Good Morning, Princess. Did you meet the Prince in your dreams yesterday?" Dr. Singh teased to put a smile on Anjali's face and the 10 year old princess blushed. Then as always, he dug deep into the pocket of his white over-coat and came out with a 5-Star chocolate.
"Mr. Suri, we need to talk. If you don't mind can we go to my cabin?"
Dr. Singh and Aditya (Aditya Suri - an Advetising Icon and Anjali's dad) left the room, while Neelima (Anjali's mom) sat next to her combing her tousled hair. Dr. Singh seated across Aditya and the room echoed with a concerning silence, as he hunted for words.
"Mr. Suri, we have identified Anjali as a case of Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease. It's a very rare disease, so rare that only 1 in a million gets as badly affected as Anjali."
"I...I..I am confused doctor, how bad is it? More details please?"
"Hmm.....you will start seeing some changes in Anjali soon. Within a week, she would start showing symptoms of Dementia. She will not recognize you or your wife, or even me for that matter. At times she would suddenly remember you, and would act normal. The week after that she would loose her control over her peripheral organs, and she might not be able to move her hands and her head. This occurs due to a condition in the brain and as it spreads, it will affect her various abilities and functions..."
Dr. Singh stopped and couldn't complete his sentence looking at Aditya. His eyes that were only moist till now, could no longer contain the heaviness of the tears accruing. He couldn't stop them from running down his cheeks, even though he attempted to close his eyes.
"Do we have a cure doc? or do I have to ask how many days Anjali will live?"
Dr. Singh's silence answered for him. As he frolicked with the pen in his hand (lousily attempting to hide his nevousness) he tried to calculate an approximate number.
"Mr. Suri, I think we just have 2 weeks."
Aditya saw his world falling apart. A million thoughts raced in his head, all converging to one -- "Why not me? Why that poor angel of mine? Why Anjali?"
Next day, on special requests which Dr. Singh made to the management, Aditya and Neelima practically shifted their living base in that small hospital room. Room No. 9 was Suri family's new home, and they didn't know for how long. By the end of that week Anjali had already lost her ability to walk, and would just look outside the window to see other kids play around.
It was just another morning for Anjali fresh and beautiful, totally ignorant about the fears which her father horned through the night. Every morning thereon Aditya and Neelima would wake up with an uncertainty whether they would see Anjali alive.
As Aditya sat next to her pillow, he stared at his little angel. Her innocent eyes stared back at him with no expressions. Her hair had started graying, and there were streaks of dark patches under her eyes. Her lips all chapped and skin all wrecked. Aditya was fighting the reality and didn't want to believe what his eyes were seeing. There were days when she would irritate him by nagging, but today she was not speaking. Innumerable times Aditya would have wished to tie her up in a chair, since she would run around the house and trouble him and Neelima. But today, Aditya wanted her to run, play with him, make him a horse and ride him, pinch her mother and run away. But the thought that she cannot do it, literally hurt Aditya like hundred knives piercing his heart.
"Papa, will I ever be able to walk again?" Anjali suddenly asked, as she looked at the kids playing outside.
Aditya was silent; his brain urging him to tell her the truth but his heart was not willing. Dr Singh had already warned him that such questions would come from Anjali, and had told him not to lie or give false hopes. Neelima could see that Aditya was choking, and it was not easy for him to lie to his little child. He wished so much that he could tell her that she can dance, run around and do whatever she wanted, but he knew he would not be honest to her.
"Anju, do you remember what you had told GOD last time you prayed? You thanked him for giving you most beloved parents and you also told him that they were special to you. So now he's very happy with you, and he's turned you also into a special child. You are very different from all the girls in your school, and out of all of them he's chosen you especially as his own little butterfly. Soon you will get wings on your back. Here....right here behind your shoulders, and then you will be able to fly. You would no longer have to walk....."
Trying real had to keep the fake smile on his face, Aditya showed a small butterfly outside the window. Anjali got excited, and kept looking at the butterfly. Anjali no longer regretted that she was loosing her legs, because she now believed that she would get wings. Neelima had seen a smile on her face after many days.
As days passed by, Anjali's health deteriorated and soon she lost her ability to move her hands too. She had grown very weak and absolutely no movements were possible without someone's help. The only moving parts were her eyelids and her lips. She was still able to talk, but no one knew for how long. Every morning she would ask her mom to check her shoulders and see if she got her wings? And Neelima swallowing her tears would lie to her saying they were there but were still developing. Aditya and Neelima were physically tired, but not tired emotionally. Aditya was strong, and he would stand by Neelima till the end of this ordeal. It wasn't easy for her to see Anjali her only child die a slow death in front of her eyes, but she managed to keep a happy face whenever she was around Anjali.
Sunday 14th-August, Aditya was sitting next to Anjali, when she said in a very slow tone barely audible --
"Papa, you lied to me. I am not getting any wings, and I know won't be able to walk too. Can you at-least show me my childhood videotapes where I used to run around? I want to see how it was when I walked. Please papa...."
Aditya could not take it anymore and with tears flowing uncontrollably from his red eyes he dashed out of the room. Neelima wanted to so badly hug Anjali and cry her heart out, but the life saving gadgetry stood between the daughter and her mom. By late evening Aditya with help of Dr. Singh arranged a TV connected to Video Recorder and few of her childhood tapes. Aditya picked one tape marked - "Anjali - 2nd Birthday Bash" and slid it in the recorder. The images on the screen, with Anjali walking around in a big diaper, smiling at the camera and hands full of chocolate cake could no longer contain Neelima's tears. As Aditya changed the tapes one after another Anjali smiled at few occasions. Then she told her mom to tilt her head towards the window, and as she lay there motionless, staring into the void of the Open Window a butterfly rested on the window pane. The music which the heart-monitors were playing so far suddenly went silent and a horizontal line replaced the spikes.
Our butterfly got her wings, and flew off to a distant land...........

Childhood Life

The most enjoying days of life,
Is the Childhood life.
It always went our way,
and it did not sway.

Lot of time to play,
and waste all day.
No time to worry,
or to be in a hurry.

There was no tension,
that we could mention.
Such a pleasant life,
was childhood life.

Oh! I wish to get it back,
but all the memories are in a rack.
And they are like treasure,
that we always cherish.
We remember this treasure,
till the time we perish.

Created by Aisha
Thanx

Jazeera

A new web site of Maldivian News.Check it out... There is a news about Solah's Post-mortem. And many more. Just wanted to tell you guy's. here is the link http://www.jazeera.com.mv
Have fun and tc.

Embarrasing Moment

One of my family sis planned to out shopping with her fellow friends. She had to meet them in a nearby shop sharp 8:30pm. It take time to a girl to get ready. As a result she was very very late. So in a hurry she left home.
After walking for 4 to 5 minutes she met her friends. As they approched to the next shop. One of her friends pointed out that something was stuck to her High heels. She qiucky raised her long Skirt and to her suprise it was like a nightmare come true. All the way from home to this shop she has been walking with a Bra stuck to her heels. Can you imagine. OMG!!!! soooooo embarrasing dho. But what to do now. Except putting it back to her hand bag.
Her friends laughed all day talking about the funny incident.She blushed 10 x more than she ever did. She says" Think about how many people who have seen me this way".It really sucks.Truly embarrasing.... :) funny dho.

Stop Abusing And Protect The Innocent

A child can be physicaly or psychologicaly harmed or injured due to abuse. Child abuse includes physical abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse and neglect.
A Child is Physicaly abused when parents or other adults deliberately injure a child or do nothing to prevent it. This includes hitting, shaking, biting and kicking, and can also be giving children alcohol or drugs. Using excessive force when feeding or changing a baby, and trying to drown or suffocate also come into this category. Injuries caused in physical abuse include bruises, burns and broken bones. The most serious cases can result in brain damage and even death.
A child is emotionally abused when parents continuously fail to show love and affection to a child. This might also be when parents or other adults constantly use sarcasm, threaten, criticise, yell at or taunt a child. Emotional abuse can destroy a child's self-esteem, making them fearful and withdrawn. All children need love and praise to feel confident and loveable. The effects of emotional abuse are serious and long-lasting, causing difficulties in relationships, mental health and confidence in adult life.
A child is Neglected when parents fail to meet a child's basic needs for food, warmth, clothing or medical attention. This can also mean leaving children to fend for themselves when they're too young and immature to manage this - leaving them home alone without adult supervision, for example. Neglected children may be very withdrawn or very aggressive, and can develop health problems or have difficulty coping in school.
A child is Sexualy abused when an adult, or sometimes an older child, uses a child for sexual gratification. This might mean forcing a child to carry out sexual acts, including sexual touching, oral sex and intercourse. It can include 'flashing' and indecent exposure, deliberately showing a child adult pornographic videos or magazines, and filming or photographing children in a sexual way. Both boys and girls are sexually abused, and it can happen to very young children - even babies - as well as older ones. The effects of sexual abuse are long-lasting and highly damaging. It can cause problems in adult personal relationships. Some children who are abused in this way may go on to become abusers themselves.
We must work to increase public awareness of abusing and to help children and young people protect themselves.Services like therapy and counselling to help children come to terms with what has happened to them and move forward in life will help the most.And also offering support to non-abusing parents to help them protect their children in the future. And please protect the innocent.If you have any concerns about the safety of a child, it's better to trust your instincts and take action to make sure that any abuse is stopped.Start standing up for the kids, and stop sticking by the adults.

Deformed Babies Due To War

This is really heart rending to see these cute babies that i have blogged has been deformed due to the use of massive amount of uranium munitions used by the US forces in the initial bombing. Due to this massive amount of congenital deformities occured all over Afghanistan. As a result the rate of various cancers went up significantly. Leukemia and esophageal cancers were very high among children. According to doctors at maternity and children hospitals in Kabul, the rate of various congenital deformities have been increased by many folds since the US invasion. In fact, the magnitude of man made isotopes was established by the Uranium Medical Research Center after their investigators made trips to Afghanistan and collected urine and soil samples. They established that the rate of man made isotopes was gone up 2000 times in some subjects located near the bombed areas.
Since uranium used in the weapons have a half-life of 4.5 billion years, the US forces ensured that generations of Afghans will suffer from cancers and deformities. This is certainly not development. In fact, it is the biggest crime ever committed by anyone in the history of humanity.How could anyone forgive them for what they have done?.How can they change it back? They have detroyed every parents dream.They have destroyed the future of these little babies.Will these babies ever be happy? no they won't, they will remember this forever. They will never forget this incident.I wish I could help these babies.Think how you will feel if it was you baby.

Last Night I watched a hindi film called "Delhii Heights" with my Prince Charming. So I thought of Sharing it with you guyz. And here is a review of that film.
In this film Abi [Jimmy Shergill] and Suhana [Neha Dhupia] are a newly-wed couple who live in a building complex called Delhii Heights. They work for rival companies. In the same society live Timmy [Om Puri], his wife Ruby [Kamini Khana] and their daughter Sweety. Abi’s friend Bobby [Rohit Roy] and his wife Saima [Simone Singh] also live in the same complex.
Due to their tiresome and tedious professional lives, Abi and Suhana are not able to dedicate ample time to each other and have to compromise on many occasions. On the other hand, Bobby is a compulsive flirt. When Suhana and Bobby dance on Holi and when they meet at Suhana’s house for a business chat, Abi begins to feel uncomfortable with Bobby being around too much and gets a little possessive. All these factors reduce the tolerance level of the couple.
Abi and Suhana, employed with rival companies, are working on the same deal and it seems to be going in favor of Abi. But at the end moment, the deal goes in favor of Suhana’s company. Abi feels Suhana has taken advantage by reading his confidential documents and taking the deal away from him. He has a tiff with her and does not even give her a chance to explain her viewpoint. Saima is fed up of her husband’s flirtatious ways and catches him red-handed one day. In the tension that follows, Bobby meets with an accident. Since she loves him, she takes care of him until he recovers. Bobby begs for another chance. That incident changes their lives.
Meanwhile, Abi realizes his fault and apologizes to Suhana, realizing that she was not responsible for anything and had never broken his trust in the first place. All’s well that ends well. Other tracks are that of a group of friends who are just having fun and play pranks.
This film has some good points for a married couple but the story is too predictable to keep the audiences hooked. If the director had concentrated on the main plot instead of meandering in too many directions, it could have been a good movie. heheh.... It's the end. oh! and do u Know what time the film finished , oh! it was 3:23 Am hehehe...

A Medical Problem

Here is another joke I found today.Check it out.What happen was an old woman came into her doctor's office and confessed to an embarrassing problem. "I fart all the time, Doctor Johnson, but they're soundless, and they have no odor. In fact, since I've been here, I've farted no less than twenty times. What can I do?"

"Here's a prescription, Mrs. Harris. Take these pills three times a day for seven days and come back and see me in a week."

Next week an upset Mrs. Harris marched into Dr. Johnson's office. "Doctor, I don't know what was in those pills, but the problem is worse! I'm farting just as much, but now they smell terrible! What do you have to say for yourself?"

"Calm down, Mrs. Harris," said the doctor soothingly. "Now that we've fixed your sinuses, we'll work on your hearing!!!"
hehehe funny isn't it. I'll post another joke as soon as possible.