Friday 18 May 2007

HOW TO AVOID STRANGER RAPE


PLs take care of yourselves. This is something that you Must think about.

AT HOME:


* Use deadbolts; window locks; peep holes; timers for lights, radio, TV, and outside security lights.
* Never open door to strangers; require ID of service or repair people.
* Plan several escape routes from your home.
* If you are a single woman - use only initials at door and in phone book. Pretend there is a man at home if someone calls.
* If you come home and something looks wrong or different - do not enter; go to a safe place and call police.


ON THE STREET:

* Go with others.
* Vary routines; go different ways at different times.
* Know where the safe places are; businesses that are open late, homes where people are up late, etc.
* If a situation feels wrong, get away fast.
* Stay away from bushes and parked cars; walk in the center of the sidewalk or road.

ON THE JOB:

* Do not work late alone; keep company with others.
* Go to the parking lot with others or ask security to accompany you.
* Vary route (and time if possible) to and from work.
* Maintain assertiveness with co-workers.

IF YOU HAVE BEEN RAPED

DO

* Tell someone you trust.
* Call the police immediately.
* Go to the hospital or a doctor.
* Call for support of a Rape Crisis worker:

DO NOT

* Wash, shower, douche, urinate or defecate (if possible).
* Change your clothes or anything about the scene where the crime took place.
* Eat, drink, or smoke.
You could destroy evidence which may be needed later.

WOMEN DO NOT ASK FOR RAPE;
NO ONE DOES

RAPE IS NOT A SEXUAL ACT,
IT IS AN ACT OF VIOLENCE

RAPE IS UNLAWFUL SEXUAL INTERCOURSE

REPORT IT !

7 comments:

manippulhu said...

aisha .. nice post ingey!! aharenge bayeh rattehi anhen kudhin ebathibi Rape kohlaafa thibi .. eyge thereyn bayeh kudhin hamdhu lillaah mihaaru marry ves kohfi .. aneh bai kudhin eba thibi ekamuge sababun marry e lafuzu anna irah adhives birun thuru thuru alhaa marry kuran nukerifa thibi meehun ves..
aisha... kuree dhuvahegga Rape aa behey gothun varah dhiraasaa kohllin! ehen ulhenikoh fenun report ehgga othee dhuniyeyga Rape emme gina ee SUMMER ga kamah.. aee summer ga anhen kudhin alhaa hendhun thah kuru vumuge sababun firihenunah baaru bodu vanee kamah! kekekeek ehen v ma huriha kudhin ves burugaa alhaagen ulhey! eyrah madhu vaane kanneyge dho! not sure ..

Aisha said...

@ manippulhu, ya most of the girls who got raped sometimes think that they are not suitable for marriage and that they wont be fresh to their husbands. but that is not their fault. they didn't plan to do that.We must understand their situation.

Thanks for da Naseyhai manippulhu. hehehe :)

Anonymous said...

WOW! Nice post there Aisha. True. No Woman Asks for Rape. Its one of the worst nightmares of the female. Nice Post!

Anonymous said...

nice one aisha..

but i guess most of it is relevant in other countries...not here...

Yafaau's daddy said...

Nice post Aisha, good to see some girlie hope in the blog. And nice advice. I hope it helps lots of girls in combating/preventing rape.

Ismail Zariyand said...

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